Bystander
Approach
Don't be a bystander, be a friend
Bystander definition:
"A friend, class-mate or person who sees or becomes aware of something and is in position to take action."
Bystander Approach - What it means
We can all be bystanders. Every day events happen around us. At some point, we will notice someone at risk, either because of the behaviour of others (such as sexual harassment or bullying) or through their own behaviour (such as carrying a knife). When this happens, we will decide to do or say something, or to simply let it go.
The Bystander Approach encourages us to take action and to prevent harm.
When we intervene, we show to others that the behaviour is unacceptable and that we want to see a change. If such messages are constantly reinforced within our community, we can shift the boundaries of what is considered acceptable and we can work together to reduce crime and to make our community safer. When we do something to prevent harm it sends a signal to others about our beliefs, our values and about who we are.
Being an active bystander - The 5 D's
Becoming an active bystander is not easy. We might feel embarrassed to say something in public, we might fear repercussions or simply think that someone else will step in, and these feelings are common. In fact, if more people are around, it is less likely that someone will intervene.
Having a choice of options can make it that bit easier to help others and ourselves. Below are some ways to intervene in any situation you where you as the bystander have seen a problem:
But it is important to remember, we should only intervene in a situation if it is safe for us to do so.
Always think of your own safety first.
In an emergency, always call 999.
Anonymity
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